Mr. KT and I get a kick out of surfing Ask Men. Him for obvious reasons and me because I tend to "think like a guy" about most relating things. I was reading it tonight and was kinda taken by their version of a surefire way to segue a conversation into something else. I gotta admit that it's shit simple. Imagine that -- getting a person into you by talking to them, listening to what they have to say and responding accordingly. Mind-blowing.
Thursday I was like a poster child for what not to do. Need I say where I was? Do I really go much of anywhere else? Besides, the Thursday party is thrown by my Friendsters, so I can get hooked up -- more than usual -- like a mofo. One of the things I love about the place is that most of the people rolling through are connected to the place, i.e. other night promoters, DJs, bartenders, etc just hanging out and kicking it. Despite the other day's assertion that platonic is ideal, there is one dude who I see there all the time and just kinda trade looks with, but nothing's ever come of it -- not that I'm necessarily trying or not one way or another. So, the typical was occuring and I was chatting with my boys and not really thinking much about it. At one point, I'm waiting for the bathroom, contemplating that the bitch ahead of me must've fallen in the toilet or something. Stupid heffa. The guy himself stands next to me and we start chatting:
Mr. Man: You waiting?
Moi: Yep.
Mr. Man: You know if someone's in this one? (gesturing towards the men's room)
Moi: No clue.
The door swings open on the men's and Mr. Man grabs it as a guy walks past
Mr. Man: Do you mind if I go? I have to go up and DJ in a min.
Moi: *shrug* It's all you.
Mr. Man goes in the bathroom and I raise my palm in a "WTF was that about?" sign.
It's a good thing I don't actually wonder why there's nothing happening romantically with me. My middle name is Self-Sabotage. Like I said though, it's no biggie. He might be fine (and indeed he is), but in my indifferent state, unless he steps up his 3:30am drunken chatter/game or I become less indifferent, it doesn't really matter.
Posted by Candicissima at August 25, 2003 12:49 AM