100 Things About
Candicissima
- Candicissima derives from a combination of
my first name (Candice) and middle (Simone) and 5 years of Latin
- As well as being the nickname that a friend
gave me in Latin class in 7th grade
- Both stories count as the origin equally
- But it's some real bastardized Latin because
it should be Candissima, but I don't like how that looks.
- It means loosely "The Candicest"
or "The Ultimate Candice"
- I'm vain enough to like that
- But not enough outwardly that you would know
I do, really.
- I don't really give off the impression of
being a vain person in real life
- And I'm probably not but I like to
exaggerate that I am because it's true enough
- I have healthy self-esteem (most of the
time)
- And I think I'm damned good-looking
- I've worked hard to feel that way over the
years
- I was a late-bloomer
- A lifetime tomboy just now getting used to
this whole girl thing
- I'd still rather wear jeans and
t-shirts/sweaters whenever possible
- But I'm a shopaholic
- Well a poor one, so I can find a bargain
like a bloodhound
- I have a weakness for soft materials
- And high totally impractical shoes
- I'm sucker for stilettos
- But usually I talk myself out of it until
this one pair I just bought
- They're my first pair of really
"sexy" shoes
- I think the trend of calling everything
"sexy" is thoroughly "unsexy"
- Though I love those shoes, I suck at walking
in heels
- And they'll probably join the collection of
nice but impractical shoes in my closet
- Sneaks and flip flops are my footwear of
choice
- I love to dance
- I do it whenever I can
- I suck at dancing with a partner.
- I have trouble following leads and
directions
- Dancing is an organic experimental thing for
me
- I'd rather dance alone
- But there is something to be said for
grinding
- I'm very critical about dancing
- I will make fun you and walk away if you're
doing something ridiculous
- I think I'm a really good dancer
- And I take dancing seriously
- Almost as seriously as drinking
- But I don't have to do either in order to
feel like I'm having fun
- I love dancing to hip-hop, house, basically
anything with a hard beat
- Drinks of choices: gin and tonic
- Vodka and cranberry
- I'm a woman of simple tastes
- I know what I like without a doubt
- Though I'm open to new things
- Sometimes too open
- But different isn't always better
- Still I like to experiment
- I love wandering
- That's why I love New York
- I'm a NYC girl through and through
- Born in Brooklyn
- Raised there and in Queens
- Went to HS in Manhattan
- Brooklyn and Manhattan are my favorite
boroughs
- Brooklyn has the spirit
- Manhattan has the liveliness
- Queens annoys the hell out me
- Pet peeves are recent transplants who think
the sun rises and sets on Manhattan Island
- Especially those who use the term
"bridge and tunnel"
- Considering they don't know that we hate
obnoxious poseurs more than anything
- I'm talking about one kid in particular
- But it's something I run into a lot in NY unfortunately
- I hate it when interesting people buy solely
into their own hype
- And think their reputation is all they need
to make this girl swoon
- They are not challenging enough for me
- I'm easily amused
- But hard to impress
- Many have tried, most fail
- I give the impression of being a ball
breaker on purpose
- But I'm a softie on the inside
- Not too soft though
- I've been burned more than a few times
- I have a weakness for strong and silent boys
- With sharp tongues
- And great senses of humor
- That give good...
- Conversation too.
- I'm not really all about the innuendos when
it matters
- Just on this nice wholesome family site
- Most of the real stories behind what I write
on here are far from G-rated
- But just as drawn out
- I write like I speak
- I've wanted to be a writer since I was 6
- But I don't know what I want to do now
- I think graduating from college will be the
happiest moment of my life so far
- The 4 years have been really essential for
me
- Though I'm definitely still a work in
progress
- I'm trying to let go of regrets
- And seize the opportunities when I can
- It's been working so far
- I'm not always as confident as I should be
- But I'm stronger than even I think sometimes
- I'm ready to be out on my own
- Though I have the most supportive family
- That encourages me to be headstrong
- And self-reliant
- Personal motto: Excelsior
- I'm not half as serious or self-involved as
I portray myself to be
- But I am indeed a melancholy Pisces
3/21/03
There's a fresher
one around here somewhere...